Obituaries

Hank and I were so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. He was a wonderful guy. Everytime I went to the office he had joke to tell. He also said if he even decided to become gay Hank would be his first choice in a partner. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ellen and Amy. Sincerely Bev and Hank Machinski.

Posted by Beverly Machinski on August 31, 2019

Rest in peace Tom I know you fought hard to beat this I can see that big smile of yours right till the end you were the best doctor I ever wanted to visit I didn't mind going to see Dr. Thomas Pocius you always had such great stories to share. I always looked forward to you coming down to Schiffs for your meat for the kielbasa recipes I hope it continues on in your memory you always talked about retiring so rest in peace you certainly deserve it

Posted by James Bagasevich on August 20, 2019

I met Tom when he came to visit his sister in Illinois many years ago. It was apparent that one of the reasons for his visit was to check out her new guy-friend (me) for the rest of the rather tight-knit and concerned family. For that reason, at first he seemed uncomfortably serious and I could tell that this was uncharacteristic. However, I guess I passed muster at the time, because soon he became that kindred spirit; genuine, honest, sweet, and full of joy. We were friends from then on. For many succeeding years he was my brother in so many tangible ways. As one of my four brothers-in-law, he was the irreverent, corny, laughing story-teller who could be depended on to lighten even the darkest mood. I loved Tommy. I wish the world was different and that I might have seen him more recently, but I know that he remained a blessing to those around him. I know he never judged. And I know he simply cared about people. Those things were constant with Tom. He was brilliant but never flaunted his intellect. He was discerning but never criticized. In addition, he was a much better bowler than Whip but only rarely mentioned it! My heart is full with memories of my forever-bro Theodus (or in his sweet mother’s vernacular: Our Tommy). I’m also overcome with sadness and sympathy for dear Ellen and Amy as well as the rest of his loving family. I pray God’s Peace for all who are feeling this profound loss. My recollections flood back to those blessed days when the world and my life was a better place with him in it. Rest In Peace and in God’s abundant grace dear Tom. Love, Shelly.

Posted by Bradley Shelton on August 18, 2019

Rest in Peace, my friend.

Posted by Joe Everding on August 18, 2019

An unforgettable co-worker, a wonderful friend to many, and simply one of the best. I express my deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Fly high with the Angels Doc!

Posted by Marcia Tomaszewski-Roney on August 18, 2019

I don’t know where to start about Tom. He was like a big brother to me. He had the best sense of humor and could get anyone to laugh. I have so many great memories of him when I worked and carpooled with him. I think one favorite was when we sang the “American Pie” on the way home from work one day. He was amazed I knew all the words, lol. Ellen and Amy, you were his life and he loved you both very much. He will forever hold a place in my heart. ❤️❤️ Rest peacefully Tommy ??

Posted by Carrie Andrews on August 18, 2019

I can't remember when I met Tom but I do remember the circumstances. All the DOC dentists were required to attend a pan endemic seminar somewhere out in the eastern part of the state. The lecture was quite unexciting to say the least. During an early afternoon break, I went outside to sit by myself ( those who know me understand this is my default behavior for most social situations). Anyway, there was another chair a couple of feet away and this guy sits down, lights up a cigarette, takes a big drag, looks at me and sighs while shaking his head. I look back a say " I know what you mean... what a waste" and we both bust out laughing We started talking and didn't stop. We discovered we had a lot in common: raising a daughter(s), having a private dental practice, working for the DOC. It seemed like we were on the same life-path. We became fast friends. Over the years we spent some time together working on DOC projects, golf outings and union meetings( we were the hit of the show). Mostly however our time together was through phone conversations. We would always give each other grief like brothers would.He'd get on me about running the state and I'd get on him about getting Amy a car. We talked about life,family,goals and dreams. A lot of wisdom was given and taken. Ellen he loved and treasured both you and Amy. You were his life. He told me the proudest/happiest moment was what you two cooked up for Amy's college graduation cap...It really blew him away He didn't deserve the hand he was dealt, but he handled it with bravery,grace and humor. If any one could quote 2 Timothy 4:7 it was Tom " I have fought the good fight. I have finished the course. I have kept the faith" Time to rest now buddy. PS: I'll see you one the first tee BUT you're not playing from the golds and you're not getting any strokes 🙂 With highest regards and affection Dennis

Posted by Dennis Tolner on August 17, 2019

RIP my friend.

Posted by G J Kasper on August 17, 2019